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Jess, 21, Canada
A love blog & personal blog following my boyfriend and I <3 :)
Anonymous asked: look beautiful in it girl!! too bad I wanted something like it need it by saturday but definitely thanks for telling me

Aw, thank you! I got the dress in a whole bunch of colours, so I’m sure if you went you could find a colour :) 

Anonymous asked: where did you get that pink dress in the pic in your about section?

I got it from Bluenotes! It was only $20 :)

Anonymous asked: I don't want him to freak out and lose all contact with me. I played with his feelings a while back. But we're older now. I get him now. I know know how much he means to me.. I just don't have the guts to tell him that. :/

But if you don’t tell him, you may regret it in the long run. Plus, as you said, you were younger back then and now you are older. You know more about yourself and what you want in a partner, and thats what you should tell him :)

Anonymous asked: I can feel him losing interest in me, when we talk. it's not the same.. He's not the same. I get that he's moving on, he should be. But it just really hurts to know I'm not the girl he's thinking of and wants to be with anymore cause honestly, I love him so much...

He is probably losing interest or showing less attention towards you because he believes that you are not interested as you have been telling him. I think you should tell him how you feel before it is too late!

Anonymous asked: This guy fell in love with me. We're best friends. We went out for a while but I broke up with him cause I didn't feel the same about him anymore and he didn't make me as happy as he once did. It seemed like the sensible thing to do at the time. he kept coming back for almost a month asking for me to take him back. He kept fighting for me no matter what. But I told him off so many times that he gave up, now I'm in love with him and I'm pretty sure he's over me but i love him. What should i do?

Well, it is understandable if he has tried to move on because you have pushed him away a few times..but if he has tried over and over again, he obviously has deep feelings for you. I think if a guy tries countless times even after being pushed away, it means he really does care for you and doesn’t want to give up. With that being said, I think if you go back to him and tell him how you feel, he may be a bit hesitant but I think he will realize your feelings are true and hopefully he will be happy about it and tell you his feelings as well :) True feelings don’t just go away quickly, so I’m sure he still does have feelings for you. Good luck!

we-found-love-in-la-la-land asked: I have this guy i know... And our friends have been trying to set us up for a while and the other night we went out drinking with a group of people and my ex bf was all over me but I like this other guy and i don't know how to tell him I like him?? And everyone was telling me the other night he was flirting with me, and we get to see each other later this week for a Friends birthday dinner what do I say to him?? Thanks

Hi! Firstly, I would just be honest with the ex-boyfriend and let him know you two won’t be getting back together. If you are honest with him, then you have done all you can by trying to respect both him and yourself. With this other guy though, maybe flirt with him a bit more when you see him at the birthday dinner! Make it clear that you are interested and hopefully he will make it clear if he is interested as well :) Good luck!

Anonymous asked: Where do you live in Canada? Lovely country isn't it <3

Hi! :) I live in Ontario! 

Anonymous asked: How long have you and Mike been together?

We have been together for a little over 2  1/2 years :) 

Anonymous asked: How old are you?

I am 20 :) I’ll be turning 21 in August!

Anonymous asked: What's up? ;(

Sigh. I wish there was a straightforward answer, but I feel like I’m a mess. Basically what started it was last year when Mike went to Japan and I found out when he was away he was flirting with this other girl (I spoke about it beforehand on tumblr) and we’ve been working on our relationship since then, and I’ve been having trust issues. Out of the blue, Mike’s dad got him a ticket to go to Japan for a week…which is great for him, and I am excited for him but at the same time, I feel like my emotions are going back to how everything was when he went last year and what happened (him flirting, trust issues, etc). I just feel like I’m not ready for that. He also promised me the next time he would go to Japan would be with me, so I guess I feel hurt and scared at the same time. But on the other side, I may be going away to school in September and won’t see him as often, which also rises the issue of trust again. I feel a bit hypocritical but I can’t help how I am feeling. He says he won’t go to Japan, but I can’t do that to him. I won’t forgive myself if he doesn’t do what he wants to because of me. I don’t know. I just feel like a mess.

Anonymous asked: what do you do to get over a rough time in a relationship?

I believe communication is essential in a relationship, especially when Mike and I are going through a rough time. Its so hard to have good communication, especially when you are going through difficult stuff with that person, but I find when we communicate and tell each other how we honestly feel, we solve our problems quicker and understand each others feelings. I hope that helps! <3

Anonymous asked: what should i do if my boyfriend is really mad at me? I've already apologized many times...

Hmm well it depends what you did to be honest! I can try to help if you tell me what happened! But if you are not comfortable with that, I suggest you tell him why you are sorry and what you learned from this argument/problem that occurred. 

questions-and-confessions asked: Hey I was wondering if u could check out my youtube and give me some advice?? ThanksMy name is angelinamariemusic7

Hi! I just checked out your channel :) You have a great voice! It sounds very sweet :) I enjoy your cover for White Horse by Taylor Swift a lot :) Keep making videos love, good job! xo

Anonymous asked: How do you know if a guy likes you?

I would say if a guy puts in a lot of effort to see you, has meaningful conversations and compliments you, he is showing that he is interested in you. Based on my experiences, if a guy goes out of his way for you, it definitely shows that you are more than a friend to him :) 

Anonymous asked: yeah, we were like sorta friends, but we liked each other before. and its been 3 months, but i honestly care alot about him, i just don't wanna say it, and it scare him off you know?

I completely understand! If he truly cares about you like you care about him, it shouldn’t scare him off :) I’m not positive how he feels, but as long as you are honest and open with him hopefully he will as well :)

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